Freitag, Mai 13, 2011

a life to learn

bad habits do come once in a while, or is it always there? ^^ i once again keep giving advices to people (usually people i care most) advices that actually arent necessary at all.. haiya.. it always ended by me regretting. free of charge and of course they dont want them, who want free things casually now? haha..

i dont know why i keep giving and giving unnecessary advices, one thing that that are clear for me now, even i keep advicing them, not one of the advices were in the end ever being taken actually, why should i bother advicing?i should ask it to myself. haha.. i think, from now on i should try to keep this on my mind first before advicing people. dont advice people as i like it, i should remember they will not follow it actually, haha.. by doing this, i hope i can correct my bad habit soon.

and again, thanks to my dear friend, who are willing to tell me to not keep doing this bad habit. luckily i´m having such good friend like you all, who didnt get angry at all while facing me being like this. btw, i also have a question, didn´t most people get angry or at least, very annoyed when people keep advicing and advicing and advicing them to do this and that? even the advice is sometimes is not really for your own good like i always said to you all, rite? haha.. how do you keep your cool?

getting mad at is really scary i think, but getting ignored is the most painful one. hope we could keep all this beautiful friendship at it is now.. ^^

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